Modesty Advice For Women- Why Fair of Face and Foul of Heart does not work

A woman will always be loved by what she uses to attract someone. 

A woman can always know how they are loved by what they use to attract a man. If a woman only uses her looks and body parts to attract men, then she will only be appreciated and treated as a sex object. If a woman wants men to appreciate her inward person, she needs to let her character outshine her outward beauty. Women need to realize that once they flaunt their sexuality in front of men, they can see or appreciate little else. Because of their visual weaknesses, Men have difficulty seeing past a woman’s body. It is very hard for a man to keep his attention on a woman’s face when her cleavage is on full display. By being immodest women allow their bodies to upstage their personality. They reduce themselves in the eyes of men from being a person with feelings to a piece of meat. Most women do not appreciate how they contribute to their own degradation by dressing immodestly. If a woman wants a man to see and appreciate her thoughts and feelings, she has to help him by downplaying her outward beauty; she does this by dressing modestly. God commands women to dress modestly in order to help men appreciate a woman’s inward beauty by not distracting them with their outward beauty. Want a man to appreciate your heart and mind, then dress modestly to help him see it.

Dress immodestly and you will only be a magnet for the Dogs.

Immodest women do not understand the folly of their own ways. Dangle your meat out in public and all the male dogs will run to her and surround her. On the other hand, a Godly man will try to control his hormones and He will do this by simply avoiding the immodest woman. So by dressing immodestly, a woman effectively filters out any good men from within her relationship circles. She will complain about how there are no good guys out there and it will never occur to her that her own behavior created this condition. Of course, modesty has the opposite effect. Immoral men are looking for a good time and not a relationship; they have little interest in the woman who has nothing to show him. Dogs are on the look out for slutty easy women to advantage of. In effect, modesty has the ability to filter out all the dogs. Modesty makes a statement to all men; it states that you are first and foremost a person and not just a slab of meat! If you do not want to be eaten by sharks, don’t cover yourself with chum and immerse yourself in shark-infested waters. If you don’t wish to be sexually harassed, don’t tempt and tease men to do so with your sexuality.

Manipulate a man and find yourself being emotionally manipulated.

Women seduce men with their looks because they believe it brings them affection and love. They observe men’s reaction to an attractive woman and they want this same affection and attention. So women are quick to emulate these methods. Women are deceived because they only look at the outward appearance of things. Things are not always what they seem. Immoral men can talk a good game. They will flatter a woman with their lip service; telling her what she craves to hear. Immoral Men know sweet nothings create a positive reaction in women and that saying them will eventually get them laid. Hungry for meat, the immoral men will chase the immodest woman saying and doing just about anything to sexually exploit her. Sweet nothings are just that- they sound sweet and they mean nothing at all. Women want a man’s words to be true because the thought makes them feel good. If feeling good is more important to a woman than knowing the truth, she will willingly deceive herself to indulge in the fantasy. Unfortunately, the truth always has a way of slapping us in the face to wake us up. Women bring these problems on themselves by behaving immodestly in the first place. Attempt to manipulate men with your looks and you will only find yourself being emotionally manipulated. If you don’t wish to be played, don’t play the game yourself.

How women can truly win a man’s heart for her inward person.

Men will always love that which is naturally lovely. If you want a man’s love, be lovely. If you want to be loved for your inward character, make your inward character lovely. Create within your heart a lovely character and men will naturally love your character. Love cannot be coerced; Love can only be earned. Trying to force or manipulate someone into loving you is an effort in futility. Who wants to be connected with someone who does not love you? This would be an unbearable condition for a woman. A woman cannot get around the importance of developing one’s character to win a man’s heart. A man may be attracted to your outward appearance for a time, but He will eventually come to know your true character. Character eventually outshines a person’s exterior. The woman who is fair of face but foul of heart will eventually ruin all of her relationships. It is only a matter of time.  Modesty compels a woman to use her character rather than her looks to attract a man. Modest women who attract men for their conversation and heart can know a man is attracted to her character