Many women in our
culture dress immodestly to obtain attention and affection from the opposite
sex. They see how exposed cleavage and tight
revealing clothes turns a man’s head. She seeks his attention and she is
willing to reveal a little to get it. Unknowingly,
she is showing off more than she anticipated. Immodesty makes a very clear statement to all the men in the room. A statement about the type of girl she may in
fact be.
Her attire
already reveals she is willing to prostitute her looks for a little attention. Perhaps for a little extended affection, she
might spread her legs. Women may not
really wish to send such a signal about themselves, but immodest attire leaves
many men with this impression just the same.
This is why many men chase the immodest woman. They are looking for a promiscuous woman to
sleep with. They think she might be
easier than the average woman. As a
woman, is this how you would wish to be thought of? As I mentioned in my post on beauty, a man’s
feelings for an immodest woman are only skin deep. They are hormones not heart. Feigned overtures in the hopes of receiving
sexual favors. If you don’t wish to be
played like this, then don’t play the game.
God tells his daughter to be modest. He commands this to make a
statement about them. The statement of
how special and valued they are in his eyes.
A statement of how there is more to them than just their body. A statement they should not be toyed with. Even some men behave immodestly. They indulge in exhibition for the
attention. I guess it’s some form of personal
amusement to shock the innocent by stander with indecent exposure. I do not understand the thrill. The Bible teaches how in uncovering one’s
nakedness, a person also exposes their moral shame. God has ordained that both things be revealed
at the same time. Any semblance of
dignity and respect a man has would be gone with a flash. Getting attention because someone has regard
and care for you is one thing, but getting attention for being a disgraceful spectacle
is quite another. They are not the same
kind of attention. God gave us clothes
for a reason and we do well if we choose to keep them on in public settings.Related Links:
Sexual Immorality: Cannot Drag to Heaven. Be Washed to be Saved
Why Should I avoid Sexual Immorality?
Women in the Sex Industry: Should Pity, Not Envy
Beauty & Fashion: They never bring Love if only Skin Deep
Virginity, Purity Standard: Heart, not the Hymen
Tramps, Sluts, Nymphomaniacs: The Prophetic Destiny of an Unrepentant Dirty Girl
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