Voyeurism, Peeping, & Staring: Not only Envy but Shame

As previously said, overexposure to pornography can make it difficult for men not to objectify real women in general- a first consequences to indulging in fantasy.  Far from being safe, all of this envy brewing within the heart eventually spills over into the real world where women always notice. 
  These men begin to steal quick glances of women when they bend over or have a wardrobe malfunction.  Their glances are quick and subtle and they think that nobody has caught them in the act; they would be wrong!  Women naturally love attention and have developed highly acute senses for detecting the slightest hints of it.  Just as a visually acute man is in tune to when someone inadvertently flashes him, women can sense when they are being watched.  You do not stand a chance of being unnoticed if she is facing you.  She sees your eyes, what they are focused on, and where they wander.  If your eyes moved down on her, you can be certain she knows it.  This makes sneaking peeks virtually impossible.  If you looked, know that you have already shamed yourself.  Within the blink of an eye, any honor you might have had with a woman could be out the door.  Of course, most of the time women will not say anything to you directly.  They will let you think you got away with it.  They will only tell all their girlfriends later what kind of pervert you are and how they need to watch out for a dog like yourself.  Your true colors will always precede you and you won’t even know it!  If this is true about the quick look, how much more obvious is it when a man begins to stare with the wide eyed gaze?  Again, she will always catch the drool coming out of your mouth before you do.  Learn to control your eyes from going there, what benefit do you really get from it if it only makes you envious and ends in your personal shame?  Who can really say that playing with fantasy can be indulged in without risk of entanglement, consequence, or of hurting others if it causes you to practice this voyeuristic behavior.   The key to avoiding all this is to keep your heart from going there in the first place.   Stop doing dishonorable things.  If you want to look at a woman naked, find yourself a spouse and give her your attention as God intended.  Leave the rest of them alone that don’t belong to you.   You will be blessed in what you do and you won’t just be a spectator to fulfillment anymore.

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