Many men think that money can somehow buy them happiness. They see how some women practically throw themselves at wealth and aspire to find true love by such a means. Such men lack total understanding. If a man uses money to win the affections of a woman, his money will be the only thing He is loved for. Flaunt your wealth for the world to see and a man will only find himself surrounded by gold diggers. Gold diggers and escorts may be beautiful, fun, and easy going because they aim to please. Nevertheless, they do all this with the sole intent of depriving a man of his wealth. A woman with a heart of gold is far better to marry than a gold digger. In marriage, a man may share everything with his wife, but he gets to keep both his wealth and her at the same time. As one flesh, everything he has may be hers, but everything she has is also his at the same time. This math does not work out when marrying a gold digger. After depleting a man of all his resources and enriching herself, a gold digger promptly leaves. A man would be left without the woman or his resources. Men should always expect such a painful let down eventually from a gold digger.
If you do not have a woman’s heart, you never have the woman.
An escort or a gold digger may pay you lip service to boost your ego and bait you, but a man is a fool if he thinks they are anymore than empty words. Actions should speak louder than words. If you have to pay a woman to sleep with you, rest assured she does not think you are great in bed. Men pay women to perform certain sexual favors in order to indulge in their own personal form of pleasure; they do this so they do not have to care for or be concerned about the personal needs of that woman. They pay her so they don’t have to win over a woman’s heart. Such selfish behavior is not really love making, no matter how you slice it. Women always know when they are being loved and when they are being used. Being a good lover is always synonymous with being loving. You cannot win a woman’s heart without really loving her first. Love is what fills a woman’s emotional tank and makes a man great to her. Anything less is not going to win any hearts. If you don’t really possess a woman’s heart, then you really never have the woman. If you do not truly care for a woman, you cannot expect her to care for you.
If you have to pay someone to love you, it is not love.
Men like to think that women love them because they throw a bunch of money around. They deceive themselves to boost their own ego. The Truth is you can never buy love or respect from people. You cannot expect to win someone’s love or respect just because you pay someone a wage. Did you ever fall in love with your employer just because they paid you a wage? A person may aim to please their customer for making money, but one cannot expect to win someone’s heart just because they receive a wage. Would you love someone who paid you a wage with no lasting benefits- especially if the work you had to perform was personally degrading? Would you love it if your employer treated you with contempt and only valued you for your personal utility? I would think not. If a man’s heart cannot be bought by such means, what makes you think a woman’s heart would be? If all you care about is what she can do for you, all she will care about is what you can do for her.
Act like a monster and she will only think of you as one.
You would especially resent an employer that was cheap and treated you badly. Men who hire women often expect them to perform sexual deeds the average woman would not wish to endure. Treat any woman badly and she will only hate you for it. Do you think women really like being gagged, abused, or treated like someone’s personal toilet? If you do horrific things to a woman, how would she not see you as anything but a monster? How could a man think such a woman would not drag your name through the mud for doing bad things? A man only makes himself look bad and shameful behaving like this. A man gives away his own honor when he behaves badly. For this reason, God says anyone who practices harlotry dearly loves dishonor (Hosea 4:18). Escort services and Gold digging are all just varying forms of Harlotry. If a man only uses a woman for his own sexual pleasure, a man should not be surprised if she only uses him.
Always expect a Gold digger to let you down.
Gold diggers don’t have lovers they have financial interests. They will make concerted efforts to please their clients because their financial success depends on it. They aim to strike it rich at your expense. If a woman plunders a man, it is because He first allowed her to do so. Escort services and Gold digging are all just varying forms of Harlotry. Men do well to remember Harlots never love they are only out to exploit. God tells men to abstain from all forms of harlotry for their own good. Taking control of your own life always begins with controlling yourself. Refrain from trying to buy the favors of women and a man will avoid such problems. Lack this self-discipline and a man becomes the victim of his own passions and appetites. A man has no one to blame but himself.
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