If a woman ever wants a relationship where she is loved for who she is on the inside, she must use her character and heart to do it. If a woman uses anything other than her character to win a person’s heart, she will only be loved for all the wrong reasons. A woman with only pretty boobs will only be loved for her boobs. A woman who looks good in tight fitting pants will only be loved for her rear end. No one gets around cause and effect. If you want someone to be the lover of your soul, you have to possess a lovely character and Spirit. For men only love that which they see as lovely. Attract men only with your looks and that’s what you will be admired for. If you want to be loved for who you are on the inside, you first have to possess a beautiful spirit.
Outward beauty is fleeting because what is inside always emerges.
If a woman has an ugly heart, a woman should only expect others to be disgusted with her in time. For the woman with bad character, it is only a matter of time before all of her relationships are ruined. Women need to realize how their own sin becomes a huge liability for them in this department. Working a man over with charm is deceitful and a man will always learn the better of it in time. A man may never know your character at first, but that does not mean He will not eventually come to know your character in time. All He may see is just a pretty package at first. Make a good first impression and men will only want to unravel that package and see what is inside. This is why outward beauty is only fleeting.
Men always have difficulty loving that which is naturally unlovely.
Once a man sees a character that is bad, they will have difficulty getting past that bad character. In Scripture, a beautiful woman who lacks discretion is likened to a pig with a ring in it’s nose. If you put lipstick on a pig, it is still just a pig with lipstick. A pig is greedy and only thinks of pleasing herself. A woman’s character eventually outshines her looks, no matter how outwardly beautiful she is. A woman cannot rely on her looks to keep the heart of a man. If a man has a conversation with a woman and the only thing that proceeds from her mouth is bitterness and gall, He will eventually not want to talk with her anymore. For What man can fall in love with bad character. Honestly, a man can only love a woman who pains him like He loves a strong toothache. He will only wish the experience to go away. You have to sow love in order to reap love. Be pleasant in your conversations and people will want to talk with you. Make them happy and they will be drawn to you. Women cannot really win with others, if she does not let them also win. Good relationships are always a win for both parties involved or they do not last.
Bad character must be changed if a woman is to improve her relationships.
With wisdom, women can build up their relationships just as easily as they can tear them down. They just need to be self aware of how their own behavior impacts those around them and change their approach for the better. This simply requires becoming a better person. Having a gentle and quiet spirit really is a virtue among people and God. Sarai, Abraham’s wife, was well past child-bearing age and she still had to beat the suitors away with a stick. Scripture says she made herself beautiful in the eyes of people by possessing a lovely spirit (I Peter 3:4-5). A heart of gold will do more to adorn a woman to others than any face-lift, tummy tuck, or boob job. In the end, a woman who fears the Lord and does what is right will always be praised. If only women would spend as much time refining their character as they do their makeup, they would be amazed by the results.
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