How Pornography & Erotica hooks a person’s Heart.
Pornography and erotica excite people. They arouse people’s sexual passions. It is Hard for people not to get emotional about sex. Things we get an emotional rush from do leave an impression on us. They can become very addictive. This pleasure is the very bait that hooks people and drags them to places they never intended to go. People do not understand how those places are far away from real people and real fulfillment! The more you indulge in a fantasy, the stronger it’s grip will be on your life. Because Pornography and Erotica stimulate people’s feelings, they hold the power to influence our heart and mind; they can influence our tastes and our behavior. This power to hold influence over our hearts is what makes idolatry so dangerous to indulge in. For whatever captures a person’s heart can ultimately captivate them.
Dreamers fall in love with an image rather than a real person.
The Euphoria of sex was always intended to cement bonds between a husband and a wife. Unfortunately, Porn and Erotica users fall in love with an image rather than a person. Real people cannot compete with sexual fantasy. Fantasy women have no imperfections. Fantasy men always know what to say and do to make a woman’s heart go pitter patter. They are always ready and available whenever the dreamer calls on them. No one in the real world can truly fit this bill. All the novelty from fantasy can make you bored and apathetic with a spouse. Look for the perfect ideal soul mate among strangers and you will never find them; for the perfect ideal man or woman does not exist. Anyone who thinks they have found such a dream lover is always in for a rude awakening. We say lovers wear rose colored glasses precisely because they don’t see their partner for who they are but for what they dream them to be. The dream always fades as the reality of life sets in. Of course, dreamers who cannot bring themselves to settle on someone real can never really settle down. Comparisons to fantasy just kill any real budding romance. Dreamers find themselves in this predicament because they are in love with a dream and not a real person; they are idolaters. As a consequence, real people can’t bring them any satisfaction. As long as people look to fantasy for fulfillment, they will never find it in the real world.
Keep your head in the clouds and you will lose touch with real people altogether.
Connect with an image and people will have a tendency to disconnect with everyone else. Porn viewers and erotica readers have a tendency to isolate themselves. They create an itch that demands to be scratched. All idols demand to be served; they will nag at you for your complete attention. Keep your head in the clouds and they can make you lose touch with reality and people altogether. It should come as no surprise then that pornography and erotica will eventually breakdown any real relationships one might have. Lack of attentiveness does not go unnoticed by a partner. Partners know when your head and heart are somewhere else. Is porn really worth sleeping on the couch for? Is it worth divorce court? A magazine or novel will never do for someone what a real spouse can. Do not give up the real thing for a hollow empty substitute. Pornography and erotica always makes developing real relationships difficult. People have to stay engaged in the real world if you are going to develop relationships with people. It is hard to meet someone when you are a recluse and don’t have a life. Fantasy will only keep you isolated and alone. If you want real fulfillment, follow God's advice. Stay engaged in the real world with real people.
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