Casanova, Bad Boy- His real mind game unmasked for women.

There is some truth to the fact that many women do in fact fall for a bad boy. If a woman sees a man that is bad news, you would think that getting into a relationship with one would prove to be a bad experience. For some strange reason, this simple logic does not seem to deter women at all. In fact, they are often attracted to such men by the droves. What does a women see in them that makes them so silly minded? The answer to this phenomena is not as mysterious as one might think. Knowing the mind game bad boys play is really the key for women to break free of them.

There is a way that seems right to a woman and that way leads to death. 

Above all else, women trust their own instincts. They trust in what their own senses tell them rather than trusting in God. First impressions do matter to a woman. She will often judge a book by it’s cover. Women will get a bit giddy when they see a sharp dressed man. They will make value judgments about a man’s persona simply on the appearance of his dress. They see a man in uniform and their own romantic notions start flying. Women like to romanticize a great number of things; their own head is filled with all sorts of romantic notions and gestures from novels and films. If they see even glimmers of it on the surface, their own imaginations can go into overdrive. People often don’t distinguish well between their own romantic beliefs and reality. To an individual, personal beliefs are reality. Women don’t realize how they can project those images on to men and be wrong. Unfortunately, appearances are not always what they seem. For instance, a man could have just been a fast food worker who rented the tuxedo just to get a girl’s attention and a woman would not know any better. Women need to trust God above their own senses. Trusting in her own senses can be a woman’s downfall.

How a Casanova plays his part to play a woman’s heart strings

A Casanova is not familiar with a woman’s dreams. He does not have to be. A man only needs to keep his mouth shut and remain still. The silent, calm, and collect type always exudes confidence to a woman, but men know this to be shrewdness. As a blank slate, a Casanova allows a woman to project her idols and fancies on to him. Women, being the talkative creatures they are, will always tell a man in time what they see in him. A man need only recognize her subtle ques. Once she reveals the image in her head, a man only has to play the part. A Casanova always becomes what she wants him to be (this is why He ends up attracting so many of them at the same time). He will play her heartstrings like a fiddle and lead her down the primrose path. As long as a man lets a woman think it was her idea, she will never see the trap door coming.

How Demonic forces fill a woman’s head to make her swoon.

There is a definitely a spiritual dimension to this game. Women forget how much enmity Satan has for them (Gen 3:15). Demons will use a woman’s own thoughts against her. Demonic forces will help a Casanova make a woman stumble if He only plays along. Demons know what to fill a woman’s head with in order to make her swoon. A dangerous Casanova leverages off of this by making room for them to lead a women into his net. The more women see other girls liking this guy, the more they will fall like dominoes. Other women will wonder what she sees in that man- they will start to give a man a second look and their imaginations will also start flying. Once a man becomes Satan’s accomplice, the demons will continue to send him victims. The more victims a man has under his belt, the more his ego and confidence grows. In this manner, a bad boy comes to embody the very devil who is using him. Satan will not only use such a man to hurt women, but He will also use them to recruit other men in the carnage. Many men see how being a nice guy does not pay off for them. Nice guys are often only relegated to friendship status with girls. As a result, many men strive to become bad boys too. Many men would rather find ways to exploit a woman than just be nice to her. In sexual immorality, getting what He wants for himself is more important than really being a woman’s true friend. Women need to realize this. Women may lust for their lovers but love will never truly be found in a fake.

Dream of being in his arms and God can only deliver you into his hands.

Always remember mindset is what puts a woman into heat. Women want to live out their romantic dreams. If they believe a certain man fits this bill, they will track him down and ensure they are found by him. Women allow themselves to be taken. She will be putty in his hands and make a fool of herself. Because she dreams of being in such a man’s arms to experience love, God has no other choice but to deliver her into his hands. Gullible women always become easy prey. There she will learn the hard way what being with an immoral man is really like. They will strip her of her clothes and have their way with her. They will do her in and ruin her. They will hump her and then dump her on the street. They will leave her with a very bitter taste in her mouth. The slap in the face will prove a harsh wake up call. When it comes to love, there is always a big difference between being the real deal and being a fake.

Breaking free of mind games always requires having a sound mindset.

To avoid all this, women need to love the truth more than anything else. Women need to trust God above their own senses knowing one’s personal limitations. They need to get to love someone for their character knowing that only character makes a person the real deal. They need to realize there is no such thing as love at first sight. Anyone thinking about this statement at face value can know it is true. A woman cannot see a person’s character by looking at them for the first time, they can only see their outward appearance. Women need to be aware that men can fake the part. It is only a thought and an image that women are in love with. An image they project on to certain men they see. There is a big difference between being in love with a dream and the person standing in front of them. Distinguishing between the two is what will keep a woman safe. God knows how to give a woman the desires of her heart. He is willing to lead her to the man of her dreams, if she would only follow him. She has only to trust God above her own senses.